Comparison Kills

Scrolling through social media — or even just looking around in real life — can make it feel like everyone else has it all together. The perfect relationship, the put-together mom, the person in the suit who seems untouchable.

Spoiler alert: they don’t. That “perfect” couple? They argue. That mom? She cries more than you know. That professional? They’re sweating that deal just like the rest of us. Everyone has a messy, complicated, invisible side — they just don’t show it.

Now imagine comparing yourself to someone else, beating yourself up, and sabotaging your own blessings because you think they have it better… meanwhile, they’re wishing they were someone else too. Comparison never helps. Stop it. Focus on your life, your choices, your story — that’s what actually matters.